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Tia Mowry is in that kind of season that a lot of people quietly hope for. The hard part is behind you, the lessons have landed, and you can finally breathe again.
When she stepped out at the Jhpiego Laughter Is the Best Medicine Gala at the Beverly Hills Hotel on March 18, she made it clear that this new chapter did not just happen to her. She says she asked for it, worked for it, and made room for it.
Mowry shared that the shift started with time alone and a real commitment to figuring herself out. “I will say that I’ve been in a place of solitude for a very long time,” Mowry told PEOPLE. “And there, I was really able to learn who I am, what it was that I wanted, and what it was that I needed. And I manifested this. I really did.”
That word, solitude, can sound heavy. But the way she talks about it, it sounds more like space. Space to hear yourself think. Space to stop running on autopilot. Space to get honest about what you actually want, not what you feel pressured to accept.
A lot of us treat being alone like something to “get through.” Mowry flips that idea. In her version, alone time is where the clarity shows up. It is where you stop repeating old patterns because you finally see them.
Her comments also hint at something practical: you cannot build a life you love if you never pause long enough to learn what you love. That kind of self-knowledge is not flashy. It is quiet. It is personal. And it can take time.
For Mowry, it also sounds like it created a foundation. Instead of looking for happiness as a rescue plan, she built it from the inside and let everything else meet her there.
Once she got clear, she says she got intentional about how she talked to herself, especially about dating. That meant paying attention to the words she used and the story she kept repeating.
“I like speaking it into existence, just being really positive about the words that you are telling yourself. Visualization, I’m a huge believer of visualizing things and visualizing feelings,” she explained. “And I just started to stop just talking badly and poorly about dating because it was very easy to do that.”
Then she got even more specific about why she wanted to change that inner narration. “But I was like, ‘You know what? I believe in neuroscience and how the brain works, and if I continue to speak negatively about it, that’s what my brain is going to seek out and find.’ But if I start to speak positive things into existence, then it’ll eventually happen,” she continued. “And I really, in a way, too, I was okay with being by myself.”
That is a big point. You do not have to pretend that dating is perfect. You have to stop feeding yourself a steady diet of doom about it. The more you rehearse disappointment, the easier it is to spot only disappointment. Mowry is basically saying she trained her mind to look for something better, and she made peace with her own company along the way.

Mowry also made it clear that this era of her life is not about chaos or proving anything. It is about balance. She is a mom of two, and that shapes every decision.
“I’m a mom,” she said. “Not that going out and dating and not being intentional is the wrong thing, but I have a lot of responsibilities, and taking care of my children, being the best mom and parent to them is my priority. So if this happens to happen, then it happens. But yeah, I’m very much at peace.”
That kind of peace feels earned. It is not forced positivity. It is more like, “My life is full, and I am not scrambling.” When you hear her say it, you get the sense that she is not dating to fill a void. She is dating from a place of wholeness, and that tends to change everything.
Mowry confirmed that things are going well, but she is not putting her relationship on display. “Though she confirmed she’s ‘very happy,’ Mowry declined to share details about her partner, telling PEOPLE, “I want to protect our privacy.”
Privacy is not just a celebrity move. It is a boundary. It can be a way of protecting something new while it is still growing. It can also be a way to keep your relationship from becoming public property, shaped by opinions that do not have to live with the consequences.
Fun fact: The Beverly Hills Hotel, where the gala was held, is famously nicknamed “The Pink Palace” and has been a longtime celebrity hotspot in Los Angeles.
Mowry was at the gala to support Gabrielle Union, who was honored as Jhpiego’s 2026 Global Ambassador for her advocacy work supporting women and families worldwide. But Union’s support runs deeper than one event.
Mowry says she has been a steady presence for years, especially after Mowry’s 2023 divorce from Cory Hardrict. Mowry and Hardrict share son Cree, 14, and daughter Cairo, 7.
“I mean, first of all, I’m here to support Gab. She has been an angel for me for the past four years,” Mowry said. “I always tell her, I’m like, ‘You literally took me under your wing.’ ”
She also credited the bigger circle around her. “It’s been a lot of healing, but a lot of my healing has come from my friends, my family, and my tribe,” she explained. “So when she asked me to be here to support her, I was like, ‘Uh, yeah.’ ”
Then she described what made Union such a safe person in the middle of a hard transition. “This woman is so incredibly smart. She’s an intellectual. I really think she’s a genius, really. And she’s funny as hell,” she said.
“How she supports me is that she’s one woman who doesn’t judge you. She doesn’t judge you as an individual, but she also doesn’t judge your circumstance.”
“She’s been there before. She’s been divorced, and she knew exactly what to say, what to do, what I needed, even before I knew what I needed,” Mowry continued. “She’s always thinking about other people. She’s just an incredible human being.”
Mowry also talked about the strength she gets from her friend group, the kind that shows up with laughter and plane tickets. “We have an incredible girl group,” she added. “We travel together. We’ve been to France together and to London. And it’s National Women’s Month. And this is one group that really embodies what being a woman is to me. And that’s community, support, love.”
If there is a theme in everything she said, it is this: healing is not just about surviving heartbreak. It is also about building the life that comes after, with intention, with support, and with peace that does not depend on anyone else.

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