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Selena Gomez is madly in love with Benny Blanco, but when it comes to changing her last name after marriage? That’s a firm no.
The singer, actress, and business mogul is making it clear—she’s Selena Gomez for life, regardless of any wedding plans.
Keep reading for more details!
In a recent Vanity Fair interview, Gomez, 32, shared insights into her relationship with Blanco and why she refuses to succumb to societal norms regarding last names. While she hinted at a potential wedding, she emphasized that there’s no pressure, and their relationship thrives on mutual respect and individuality.
“I want him to always be himself,” she told the magazine. “I always want to be myself.”
And being herself includes keeping the name that has been part of her identity since she first entered the entertainment industry as a child star on Barney & Friends. From Wizards of Waverly Place to her globally successful beauty brand, Rare Beauty, Gomez’s name is synonymous with her brand.
While many celebrities opt to take their spouse’s last name, she’s standing her ground. “I’m not changing my name no matter what,” Gomez firmly stated. “I am Selena Gomez. That’s it.”

Gomez and Blanco’s love story didn’t just happen overnight. The pair have known each other for years, collaborating on several hit tracks before their relationship turned romantic in July 2023.
Gomez recently admitted that her bond with Blanco feels different from anything she’s experienced before. “I’ve never been loved this way,” she revealed.
Blanco, a successful producer, has been vocal about his admiration for Gomez. He has frequently described her as “the coolest, nicest, sweetest” person and even called her his best friend.
That deep friendship became the foundation of their romance.
Their chemistry isn’t just personal—it’s professional too. Blanco and Gomez have worked together on multiple projects over the years, including:
Now, the power couple is gearing up to release a joint album, I Said I Love You First, scheduled to drop on March 21, 2025. The album features tracks like Scared of Loving You and Call Me When You Break Up, which includes a feature from rising star Gracie Abrams.
Blanco and Gomez may be in the spotlight, but when it came to their engagement, they managed to keep things private. Blanco proposed in December 2023 after dating Gomez for six months.
During an interview with Interview Magazine on February 14, Gomez described the proposal as “really sweet” but opted not to share many details. “I’m saving proposal details for our kids,” she said.
However, Blanco couldn’t help but gush about how he pulled off the surprise. He admitted that keeping it under wraps was tough, especially since Gomez started getting suspicious when he stayed out late.
“I almost did it early,” Blanco confessed, “but I nailed it.”
While the couple is taking their time enjoying their engagement, marriage is definitely in the cards. Blanco previously hinted at his plans during The Howard Stern Show, much to Gomez’s amusement.
“He can’t lie,” she joked, recalling how she laughed at his unintentional revelation. “I was dying laughing, like, ‘Anything else you wanted to put out there?’”
Despite the engagement, Gomez isn’t rushing into wedding planning. She’s currently focusing on her music, acting, and business ventures. But when the time comes, she has a vision in mind.
Gomez’s decision to keep her last name underscores her commitment to her personal and professional legacy. As a globally recognized name in music, film, and beauty, she knows that her name carries weight.
Changing it, even after marriage, would mean altering an identity she has worked tirelessly to build. Some may see her choice as unconventional, but for Gomez, it’s about staying true to herself.
“Selena Gomez” is more than just a name—it’s a brand, a legacy, and a symbol of her journey from a Disney star to an international icon. And she’s not willing to change that for anything or anyone.
Fans have been quick to show their support for Gomez’s firm stance on keeping her last name. Many praised her independence and commitment to her identity.
Social media has been flooded with messages of admiration, with some users highlighting that Gomez’s name has been a crucial part of her success story. Others have pointed out that this isn’t the first time a high-profile celebrity has chosen to retain their birth name post-marriage.
Stars like Beyoncé, Madonna, and Cher have kept their names as part of their brand identity, proving that personal choice often outweighs tradition in the entertainment industry.
While some might wonder how Blanco feels about Gomez’s decision, he has been nothing but supportive. Sources close to the couple have revealed that Blanco loves Gomez for who she is and respects her choice.
He has always admired her strength and independence, making it clear that her decision does not impact their relationship in any way. In a recent interview, Blanco expressed his admiration for Gomez’s confidence, stating, “She knows who she is, and that’s one of the things I love most about her.”
| Year | Event |
|---|---|
| 2015 | Blanco co-produces Kill Em with Kindness and Same Old Love for Gomez’s Revival album. |
| 2019 | They collaborate on I Can’t Get Enough with Tainy and J Balvin. |
| July 2023 | Gomez and Blanco start dating. |
| December 2023 | Blanco proposes to Gomez. |
| March 21, 2025 | Their joint album I Said I Love You First is set to be released. |
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