Last Updated: June 27, 2025
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Lauren Sánchez’s ex attends her wedding, and brings his wife
Last Updated: June 27, 2025
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When it comes to breakups and blended families, most people go their separate ways and keep things polite from a distance.
But Lauren Sánchez is showing the world how to keep things mature, positive, and even celebratory, by inviting her ex-boyfriend and his wife to her wedding with none other than Amazon founder Jeff Bezos.
Yes, you read that right. Lauren’s former flame, Tony Gonzalez, and his wife, October “Tobie” Gonzalez, are set to witness her say “I do” to Bezos in what’s expected to be one of the most extravagant weddings of the year.
Let’s dive into how this unexpected guest list came to be and what it says about Sánchez’s journey, relationships, and her high-profile romance with Jeff Bezos.
An Ex at the Altar (Sort Of)
Tony Gonzalez and Lauren Sánchez were once an item back in the early 2000s. They weren’t just dating, they were parents. The former couple welcomed a son, Nikko, in 2001. A year later, they split up, but it seems like the story didn’t end with the breakup.
Fast forward to today, and Tony is now happily married to Tobie Gonzalez. The two tied the knot in July 2007, and they’ve built a life together since. What’s fascinating is how that life still includes Sánchez in a very real and very friendly way.
According to TMZ, Tony and Tobie are not only attending Sánchez’s wedding to Bezos, but they’re already in Europe enjoying a romantic road trip through Rome and Tuscany.
Their Instagram updates have shown them exploring the scenic countryside and gearing up for the star-studded celebration ahead in Venice, Italy.
From Friction to Friendship
In an earlier interview with The Wall Street Journal in 2023, Sánchez opened up about the unique bond she now shares with both Tony and Tobie.
“It wasn’t always that way. There was friction [at the beginning],” she admitted. But with time, understanding, and mutual love for their shared son Nikko, the trio grew close. Sánchez even went as far as calling them her “best friends.”
This isn’t just lip service, either. Tobie was spotted attending Sánchez’s bachelorette party in Paris last month, a destination bash that included laughter, champagne, and plenty of girl time. When the ex’s wife is joining in on pre-wedding festivities, you know it’s real.
The Missing Ex
While Tony and Tobie will be there to toast to Lauren’s new chapter, one familiar name will be noticeably absent: Patrick Whitesell, Sánchez’s ex-husband.
Whitesell, a powerful talent agent in Hollywood, was married to Sánchez from 2005 to 2019. The pair shares two children together, 19-year-old Evan and 17-year-old Ella. According to TMZ, Patrick won’t be attending the wedding in Venice.
While no specific reason has been given for his absence, it seems like the current relationship between Sánchez and Whitesell is more distant and less amicable than the one she enjoys with Tony and Tobie.
A Romance Born in the Spotlight
Sánchez and Bezos made their relationship public in 2019. It was a huge media moment, not just because Bezos is one of the richest men in the world, but because their romance was revealed just as Bezos was going through a very public divorce from his longtime wife, MacKenzie Scott.
Since then, Lauren and Jeff have embraced the spotlight. Their romance has been anything but low-key. From yacht vacations and red carpet appearances to philanthropic projects and global adventures, they’ve become one of the most talked-about couples in celebrity circles.
Bezos finally popped the question almost four years after they first went public, and preparations for the wedding have been in full swing ever since.
A Wedding Fit for Royalty
The couple’s wedding celebration is set to take place in Venice, Italy, a city famous for its romantic canals, stunning architecture, and timeless charm. But before the actual ceremony, they’ve already kicked off the festivities in grand fashion.
They hosted a lavish foam party aboard the 500‑million‑dollar superyacht Koru. The guest list is nothing short of elite. Stars like Orlando Bloom and Kim Kardashian are among those expected to attend, adding even more glamour to the already glittering affair.
Redefining Relationships
In a world where most people struggle to stay civil with their exes, Lauren Sánchez is redefining what it means to blend past and present relationships.
By inviting Tony Gonzalez and Tobie to her big day, she’s not just extending an olive branch; she’s celebrating the full journey of her life. From motherhood to co-parenting to becoming a future wife again, it’s a bold, modern, and refreshingly mature approach to love.
It also speaks volumes about the kind of woman Sánchez is. She’s not afraid of awkward moments. She values connection. And she knows that love, even when it changes shape, can still be something to honor and cherish.
Her upcoming wedding to Jeff Bezos isn’t just about a new beginning. It’s also a celebration of all the people who helped her get there.
And that, more than anything, might just be the most beautiful part of this high-profile love story.
TL;DR
- Lauren Sánchez is marrying Jeff Bezos in Venice, Italy.
- Her ex-boyfriend Tony Gonzalez and his wife Tobie are attending the wedding.
- Tony and Lauren share a 24-year-old son, Nikko, born before their 2002 breakup.
- Tobie and Lauren are now close friends. Tobie even attended Lauren’s bachelorette party in Paris.
- Lauren previously said “It wasn’t always that way. There was friction [at the beginning]” but now calls Tony and Tobie her “best friends.”
- Lauren’s ex-husband, Patrick Whitesell, father of her two younger kids, will not be at the wedding.
- Sánchez and Bezos went public in 2019; he proposed in May 2023, nearly four years later.
- The couple hosted a pre-wedding foam party on Bezos’ $500 million superyacht.
- A-listers like Kim Kardashian and Orlando Bloom are expected to attend the main event.
- The wedding reflects Sánchez’s modern and mature approach to love, friendship, and blended families.
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